Preheat oven to 350.
Spray a large, deep dish loaf pan generously with butter flavored cooking spray.
In a sauce pan over medium/heat, add the butter and the jalapenos and cook until just starting to soften, about 3 minutes.
Add the milk and polenta and stir until the milk starts to bubble and is well combined with the polenta. Cover and remove from heat, allowing to rest for about 20 minutes.
In a separate bowl, whisk together the flour, baking soda, baking powder, sugar and salt.
In another bowl, whisk the eggs and the honey until well combined.
Add the egg mixture to the polenta pan and stir. Add the dry ingredients and stir until incorperated. Add the beer and the corn kernels, stirring until just combined.
Add to the prepared baking dish and pour the 2 tbs of melted butter over the top.
Bake at 350 until a skewer inserted in the middle comes out clean, about 45-55 minutes.